Wedding Day Planning Checklist: Simple Steps to Organise Your Day (with a Little Help from WedBuild)

If you’ve ever thought, “I wish someone would just tell me what to do and in what order,” this is that.

This checklist walks you through the key steps to planning your wedding from “we’re engaged” to “we’re married”, and shows where a digital planner like WedBuild fits in to keep everything calm and in one place.

For a big-picture overview of how AI ties into your planning, you can also read AI Wedding Planning 101: How WedBuild Becomes Your Digital Wedding Planner (Not Just a Website)

1. Start with Your Guest List

The guest list quietly drives almost everything:

• Your budget
• Your venue options
• Your food and drink costs

Start with an A list (people you absolutely want there) and a B list (nice-to-have additions if budget and space allow).

Even at this early stage, putting your guest names into something structured – rather than a random notes app – makes a big difference. WedBuild is being designed as that central place: one list you can refine, update and eventually connect to RSVPs, seating and more.

2. Set Your Budget

Once you roughly know how many people you’re inviting, you can set a realistic budget. Most major costs scale with guest numbers, so it makes sense to decide on those together.

A simple way to start:

• Decide your overall budget
• Allocate rough amounts to venue, food, drinks, photography, music, styling, outfits, etc.
• Leave a little buffer for things you’ll only discover later (there are always a few)

WedBuild is being built with an accountant-designed budgeting structure in mind – something that turns “approx vibes” into real numbers and keeps everything in one clear picture.

3. Lock In Your Date and Venue

Next, secure the two big pillars your day rests on:

• Ceremony date, time and location
• Reception date, time and location (if different)

Once these are booked, you have a framework for everything else: your invitations, website content, travel info for guests, and your run sheet. In WedBuild, this kind of core information is intended to sit at the heart of your planning, feeding into your timeline, guest communications and the rest.

4. Choose Your Style and Overall Vibe

Now for something more fun: how you want the day to look and feel.

Think about:

• Formal vs relaxed
• Daytime vs evening
• Colour palette
• Setting (coastal, winery, rooftop, backyard, garden, city, etc.)

This doesn’t need to be locked in at a hyper-detailed level, but having a clear direction will help with everything from outfits and flowers to your website design and stationery. WedBuild is being created with modern, flexible styling in mind so that your digital presence can actually match the mood you’re going for in real life.

5. Book Your “Power Five”

Once date, venue and budget are roughly in order, it’s time to start securing your key suppliers. For most couples, the “power five” look something like:

1. Photographer (and videographer if you want one)
2. Caterer / venue catering
3. Celebrant or officiant
4. Music (DJ or band)
5. Planner / coordinator or stylist (if you’re using one)

These vendors often book out well in advance, especially on popular dates. A central planner like WedBuild is being designed to help you track who you’ve enquired with, who you’ve booked and what remains on your list, instead of scattering that info across emails and sticky notes.

6. Build Your Wedding Website and Info Hub

At some point in this early-to-middle phase, it’s worth setting up your wedding website.

Your site can include:

• The basic who/what/where/when
• Travel and accommodation information
• Dress code
• Your story
• RSVP details

WedBuild is being built to act as both your website and your planning home, so that what your guests see (RSVP forms, event details) and what you see (guest list, responses, notes) are connected rather than separate worlds.

7. Start a Real Checklist (and Use It)

You don’t need a 400-item list to begin with, but you do need something more reliable than “we’ll remember”.

Your checklist should cover:

• Admin (legal forms, payments, contracts)
• Vendors (booking, confirming, final details)
• Styling and decor
• Clothing, fittings and accessories
• Transport and logistics
• Little things like speeches, music choices and pack-down

WedBuild is being designed with a planning checklist at its core, supported by AI to help remind you of things couples commonly miss and to keep your tasks realistic and ordered.

8. Plan the Flow of the Day

A clear, simple run sheet makes the day smoother for everyone: you, your guests, your vendors and your wedding party.

Think about:

• When guests should arrive
• Ceremony timing
• Travel between locations (if any)
• Speeches, first dance, cake cutting
• When you want formalities to end and “party” to begin

Tools like WedBuild aim to help you map this out alongside your other planning, so you’re not creating twelve different versions in twelve different documents.

9. Organise Seating and Final Details

Closer to the day, once RSVPs are in, you’ll move onto:

• Final guest list
• Seating (who sits where and with whom)
• Place cards and/or table numbers
• Final dietary lists for your caterer
• Final confirmations with all vendors

This is usually where couples end up surrounded by scraps of paper and last-minute changes. WedBuild is being built specifically to avoid that moment – the idea is one source of truth for guests and tables that you can adjust as needed without starting from scratch each time.

10. Confirm, Hand Over, and Breathe

The final stretch is about confirming and handing over:

• Send final details and PDFs/run sheets to your vendors
• Make sure someone besides you knows the plan (coordinator, trusted friend or family member)
• Decide what actually needs your attention on the day and what can be delegated

The whole purpose of a digital planning home like WedBuild is to get you to this point without feeling like you’re constantly chasing information. Everything you’ve decided along the way feeds into one clear plan you can share, so you can finally step back and enjoy what the whole thing is actually for.

You don’t need to love spreadsheets, be hyper-organised or treat your wedding like a project plan. But having a simple order to follow and one place to keep it all, makes a huge difference. That’s exactly the gap WedBuild is being built to fill: a modern, calm home for all the moving parts of your day, so you can spend less time wrestling logistics and more time being excited to get married.