Create a Wedding Day Timeline Without Crying

Your wedding day timeline (Run sheet) is the difference between “beautiful, relaxed go with the flow” and “what on earth is happening now?”. It doesn’t have to be complicated or military-level precise, but you do need a clear wedding day schedule so you, your vendors and your wedding party know what’s happening and when.

A digital wedding planner like WedBuild is being built to help you pull all of this together in one place (without crying), from guest info and venue details through to your final wedding run sheet - instead of spreading it across emails, spreadsheets and group chats.

For a full step-by-step overview of everything that sits around your timeline, check out Wedding Day Planning Checklist: Simple Steps to Organise Your Day with WedBuild.

Start with the Anchors of Your Wedding Day

Before you worry about five-minute increments, start with the big anchor points of your wedding day timeline:

• Ceremony start time

• Reception start time

• When guests are expected to arrive

• Curfew or venue finish time

Drop those into your planner first. In WedBuild, the idea is that these core details sit at the centre of your wedding planning, feeding into your wedding website, invitations and vendor communications.

Once those anchors are set, everything else can be built around them.

Work Backwards from the Ceremony

Most timelines are easier if you work backwards from your ceremony.

Ask:

• What time do you want to walk down the aisle?
• How long is the ceremony likely to take?
• Do guests need travel time between ceremony and reception?
• How much time do you need beforehand for photos, getting dressed and any first look?

For example, if your ceremony is at 3:30 pm, you might:

• Ask guests to arrive from 3:00 pm
• Finish the ceremony by around 4:00 pm
• Leave 15–30 minutes for congratulations and quick photos
• Then move into travel / group photos / drinks depending on your plan

Your wedding day schedule doesn’t need to be down to the second, but writing this out helps you avoid cramming too much into a tiny window.

Layer In Key Reception Moments

Next, sketch the main beats of your reception into your wedding run sheet

Common elements include:

• Guest arrival and pre-dinner drinks
• Wedding party entrance
• Dinner service (by course or as a block)
• Speeches
• Cake cutting
• First dance
• Dance floor “open” time
• Any formal send-off, sparkler exit or last song

The order is up to you, but aim for a rhythm that keeps people engaged: not too many speeches back-to-back, not huge gaps with nothing happening, and enough time to actually enjoy your meal.

A digital wedding planner like WedBuild is being designed so that when you add these beats to your timeline, they sit alongside your vendor details (e.g. what time the band starts, when the photographer leaves, when food is served) rather than being in a separate document.

Don’t Forget the “Invisible” Parts of the Day

Your wedding day timeline isn’t just about guest-facing moments – it should also cover the behind-the-scenes things that keep the day running smoothly:

• Hair and makeup start and finish times
• When flowers and other decor are being delivered
• When vendors can access the venue
• Transport pickups and drop-offs
• Time for couple portraits, family photos and any special shots
• Pack-down times if you’re responsible for styling items

These details are exactly the kind of thing that get lost if they’re not sitting inside a central wedding planning hub. WedBuild is being created to give you one run sheet where you can see both the “front stage” moments and the “backstage” logistics together.

Keep Your Wedding Website and Timeline Aligned

Your wedding website doesn’t need to show your entire run sheet, but it should reflect the key timings:

• When guests should arrive for the ceremony
• What time the ceremony starts
• When and where the reception begins
• Any info about shuttles, transport or in-between time

As you refine your wedding day schedule, remember to update those details in whatever you’re using as your wedding website. One of the goals behind WedBuild is to have your planning and website connected, so when you update details in your planner, you’re not forgetting to update them in front of your guests too.

Share Your Wedding Day Timeline (and Not Just with Each Other)

Even the best wedding run sheet won’t help if it lives only in your head – or your inbox.

Once your wedding day timeline feels right, share it with:

• Your venue and coordinator

• Your photographer and videographer

• Your celebrant or officiant

• Your band or DJ

• Anyone doing a speech

• A trusted member of the wedding party or family

WedBuild is being built so you can export a clean version of your timeline to share with vendors, or send it digitally, instead of cobbling together different versions of the plan for each person.

Leave Breathing Room (Seriously)

The biggest mistake couples make with their wedding day timeline is trying to pack too much in. Things will run a little over at some point – a speech goes long, traffic is slow, someone needs five minutes – and that’s normal.

A good rule of thumb:

• Build in 5–10 minute buffers between key moments
• Don’t schedule back-to-back formalities with no flex
• Accept that if everyone’s having a great time, you might slide a little and that’s okay

Your wedding day schedule is there to support the day, not strangle it. A calm, flexible structure – backed up by a clear digital plan – is usually better than a minute-by-minute script.

Bringing It All Together with WedBuild

Creating a wedding day timeline doesn’t have to be scary; it just needs a bit of structure and a clear place to live.

WedBuild is being designed as that digital wedding planner: one home for your key timings, vendor details, guest info and wedding website content, so your wedding run sheet isn’t just a frantic document you throw together at the last minute, but a natural extension of all the planning you’ve already done.

And if you’d like to see how your timeline connects with everything else – guest list, budget, seating and more, you can dive into Wedding Day Planning Checklist: Simple Steps to Organise Your Day with WedBuild as your big-picture guide.